1Behavioral Science Research Institute, Srinakharinwirot University, Bangkok, Thailand
2Department of Psychology, Faculty of Social Sciences, Kasetsart University, Bangkok, Thailand
3Department of Preventive and Social Medicine, Faculty of Medicine, Srinakharinwirot University, Bangkok, Thailand
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“From a person who likes to tease friends and gossip about others, I changed recently. I just put myself in their shoes.”
(The first counselee, a 13-year-old male in grade 8)
“If we know and understand the feelings of others, we can live together in our society. If we do not tease our friends, they will come to make friends with us, and then we can also live happily together in our friends’ company.”
(The sixth counselee, a 14-year-old male in grade 8)
“Doing good things is something our society needs. Our society needs goodness to improve ourselves to be better. Teasing friends makes them hurt. So if we can improve ourselves, we will not tease them anymore.”
(The third counselee, a 12-year-old male in grade 8)
“Good behavior helps other people when they are in distress or trouble. We should listen to them closely and reasonably. We should not use our emotions when making decisions and [we should] not bully other people. These things make us very proud of ourselves.”
(The fourth counselee, a 13-year-old male in grade 8)
“We can socialize with other people without bullying them.”
(The second counselee, a 13-year-old male in grade 8)
“If we follow the rules, do not break the rules, and do not hurt others, then we can live together and it makes us feel good.”
(The fifth counselee, a 13-year-old male in grade 8)
“At first, I was not that good of a person. After I learned and gained some more knowledge from other people, I can live in society. I no longer tease anybody and understand them well now.”
(The sixth counselee, a 14-year-old male in grade 8)
CONFLICT OF INTEREST
The authors have no conflicts of interest associated with the material presented in this paper.
FUNDING
This research was supported by the National Research Council of Thailand.
AUTHOR CONTRIBUTIONS
Conceptualization: SJ, CE. Data curation: SJ. Formal analysis: SJ, CE. Funding acquisition: SJ, CE. Methodology: OS, CE. Project administration: SJ, CE. Validation: OS. Writing – original draft: SJ. Writing – review & editing: SJ, OS, CE.
Components1 | Example of quotations | |
---|---|---|
Social awareness | ||
Awareness of one’s own emotions and those of others (12) | “If he is aware of himself, he will be aware of other people’s feelings; But if he doesn’t understand even himself or what he wants, he will behave in the wrong way” | |
Awareness of various social situations (12) | “The understanding of right or wrong events in society and the reasoning on such events including when students sympathize with their friends, the (bullying) behaviors will stop” | |
Social information processing | ||
Understanding the behaviors of others (7) | “We must give in because she is a woman; Don’t bully each other; Listen to me, we are men, we have advantage over women; If it becomes a big problem, the troubles will find your parents” | |
Understanding social situations (11) | “Making students with bullying behaviors aware of social situations will enhance their thinking and decision-making skills for that situation; This will help teenagers to know how to choose the right and appropriate expressions for interacting with others in the society” | |
Social skills | ||
Appropriate expression of emotions (9) | “Try to teach him that some incidents are too insignificant to matter, then he should let it go and control himself; These days, students sometimes just can’t control themselves in response to a small incident, which causes it to become a big problem; Maybe if it is a small problem, they should let it be” | |
Appropriate behaviors (14) | “The reason for students to bully their friends is mostly from themselves; While being with their families, they may often encounter domestic violence; Some students are just spoiled by their families, and not disciplined on appropriate behaviors; It seems like they lack social skills” |
Counseling sessions (theme)1 | Activities | Expected outcome | ||
---|---|---|---|---|
Week 1: You and I | ||||
Objective(s): To create an atmosphere of trust, warmth and friendliness, which encourages mutual acceptance between the counselor and the counselee | Create relationships between the counselor and the counselee | Trust established with the counselee, resulting in effective execution of the social intelligence counseling program | ||
Explain the objectives and the benefits of attending the program and give the counselee an opportunity to share his or her expectations | ||||
Ask questions to assess and allow the counselee to understand social intelligence | ||||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Jointly summarize the benefits of social intelligence | |||
Theory: person-centered counseling theory | ||||
Techniques: listening, questioning, unconditional positive regard, attention, reflection on feelings, clarifying | ||||
Week 2: Understanding emotional awareness | ||||
Objective(s): For the counselee to understand and be aware of his or her feelings and emotions and those of others | Review the benefits of social intelligence | The counselee gains awareness and an understanding of their feelings and those of others, especially the thoughts and feelings of a person being bullied | ||
Allow the counselee to close his or her eyes for 2 minutes to recall past events | ||||
Have the counselee draw a picture of “my goodness” and a picture of “a friend’s goodness” and explain their feelings | ||||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Ask questions about how to understand people to develop an ability to understand others’ emotions in various situations | |||
Theory: Gestalt counseling theory | Explain and connect the thoughts, feelings and perceptions of the counselee to understand the feelings of a person being bullied | |||
Technique: think-feel technique | Jointly summarize the counselee’s participation in this session | |||
Week 3: Understanding social awareness | ||||
Objective(s): For the counselee to correctly understand social situations | Greet and talk about various situations in society | The counselee gains an awareness of the social situations around himself or herself and an understanding of the behavioral expressions of others and learns to respond appropriately | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Use the “stay with a feeling” technique to allow the counselee to think about a social situation and ask about the situation and the feelings of the counselee | |||
Theory: Gestalt counseling theory | Have the counselee choose a question card about a bullying situation in society, use this question to ask how the counselee feels about the situation on the card, about the cause of the situation, and whether the counselee has experienced a similar situation | |||
Techniques: stay with a feeling, fantasy approaches | Jointly share opinions and views on the situation | |||
Conduct awareness exercises and jointly summarize the counselee’s participation in this session | ||||
Week 4: Enhancing decisions regarding the treatment of others | ||||
Objective(s): To enhance the counselee’s understanding of the behaviors of others in social situations | Discuss the daily routines of the counselee | The counselee understands the behaviors of others in social situations, which informs their decisions regarding how to treat others | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Have the counselee visualize various bullying situations and ask questions: | |||
Theory: behavioral counseling theory | “How do the people in these situations feel?” | |||
Technique: problem-solving | “What do the people in these situations want?” | |||
Support and allow the counselee to freely express his or her views about situations and people in society | ||||
Have the counselee try to understand the simulation and answer the question of “how to solve this problem” | ||||
Jointly gather concepts and summarize participation in this session | ||||
Week 5: Enhancing social information processing | ||||
Objective(s): To enhance the counselee’s understanding of social situations when deciding to express appropriate behaviors | Greet and ask about the experiences of the counselee from previous sessions | The counselee understands proper social etiquette and orders of society to understand social information and use it in decisions to show appropriate behaviors in each situation | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Allow the counselee to use “fantasy approaches” to imagine life events that cause inappropriate behaviors and the impact of these events | |||
Theory: Gestalt counseling theory | Jointly share opinions about inappropriate behaviors and proper social etiquette | |||
Techniques: fantasy approaches | Use open-ended questions about how the counselee should behave upon encountering a teacher, a monk, his or her father or mother, relatives, or close friends | |||
Provide knowledge about etiquette in daily life and perform some exercises for “basic social etiquette” | ||||
Jointly summarize participation in this session | ||||
Week 6: Developing emotions | ||||
Objective(s): To develop appropriate emotional expressions in front of others | Discuss and exchange various stories to create a friendly atmosphere | The counselee has knowledge of various emotions and appropriate emotional expressions, resulting in the ability to express emotions and control aggressive emotions | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Provide knowledge of “emotions and feelings in everyday life” | |||
Theory: behavioral counseling theory | Have the counselee review his or her thoughts and feelings upon encountering a simulation; for example, when receiving a compliment from a teacher for having the highest exam score, when being teased or attacked by a friend | |||
Techniques: skills training, reinforcement, assign homework | Do “skills training” for appropriate expressions of feelings | |||
Give a “homework assignment” to practice “complimenting others” | ||||
Week 7: Developing behaviors | ||||
Objective(s): To develop the ability to express appropriate behaviors in front of others | Greet and have the counselee present homework on “complimenting others” | The counselee can appropriately behave in front of others, including communication, facial expressions, postures, and maintaining good relationships | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Have the counselee think of inappropriate behaviors that he or she has experienced or displayed and write down these inappropriate behaviors and their attitudes toward such behaviors | |||
Theory: behavioral counseling theory | Have the counselee look at a picture set showing bullying behaviors and share a reflection of his or her feelings and beliefs about the behaviors and discuss each behavior with the counselee | |||
Techniques: modeling, assign homework | Use the “modeling” technique for the counselee to practice the appropriate behavior shown in pictures of “good behavior for teenagers” | |||
Give a “homework assignment” to make a record of “my good behaviors” | ||||
Week 8: Success in social intelligence | ||||
Objective(s): To review learning and reflective learning outcomes after participating in the psychological counseling program to enhance social intelligence | Greet the counselee and ask what he or she has learned from the previous homework assignment | The counselee can link the knowledge from the counseling program with practice, planning how to use what they have learned and making appropriate ethical decisions, which results in reduced bullying behaviors displayed by the counselee | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Explain the purpose of this counseling session to lead to the end of the consultation | |||
Theories: person-centered counseling theory | Ask questions to assess the learning outcomes of the counselee; for example, what the counselee learned and what benefits the counselee gained | |||
Techniques: open-ended questions, summarizing, clarifying, encouragement | Have the counselee complete a “reflective learning” worksheet and provide an opportunity to ask additional questions | |||
Encourage the counselee to gain confidence in applying social intelligence in daily life |
Variables | Experimental (n = 16) | Control (n = 16) | Total | p-value1 |
---|---|---|---|---|
Sex | 1.000 | |||
Male | 16 | 15 | 31 (96.9) | |
Female | - | 1 | 1 (3.1) | |
Age (y) | 0.918 | |||
12 | 1 | 1 | 2 (6.3) | |
13 | 10 | 8 | 18 (56.2) | |
14 | 4 | 6 | 10 (31.2) | |
16 | 1 | 1 | 2 (6.3) | |
Education level | 0.484 | |||
Grade 8 | 16 | 14 | 30 (93.7) | |
Grade 9 | - | 2 | 2 (6.3) | |
Cumulative grade | 0.241 | |||
≤2.00 | 4 | 6 | 10 (31.2) | |
2.01-3.00 | 9 | 4 | 13 (40.6) | |
>3.00 | 3 | 6 | 9 (28.2) |
Components |
Example of quotations | |
---|---|---|
Social awareness | ||
Awareness of one’s own emotions and those of others (12) | “If he is aware of himself, he will be aware of other people’s feelings; But if he doesn’t understand even himself or what he wants, he will behave in the wrong way” | |
Awareness of various social situations (12) | “The understanding of right or wrong events in society and the reasoning on such events including when students sympathize with their friends, the (bullying) behaviors will stop” | |
Social information processing | ||
Understanding the behaviors of others (7) | “We must give in because she is a woman; Don’t bully each other; Listen to me, we are men, we have advantage over women; If it becomes a big problem, the troubles will find your parents” | |
Understanding social situations (11) | “Making students with bullying behaviors aware of social situations will enhance their thinking and decision-making skills for that situation; This will help teenagers to know how to choose the right and appropriate expressions for interacting with others in the society” | |
Social skills | ||
Appropriate expression of emotions (9) | “Try to teach him that some incidents are too insignificant to matter, then he should let it go and control himself; These days, students sometimes just can’t control themselves in response to a small incident, which causes it to become a big problem; Maybe if it is a small problem, they should let it be” | |
Appropriate behaviors (14) | “The reason for students to bully their friends is mostly from themselves; While being with their families, they may often encounter domestic violence; Some students are just spoiled by their families, and not disciplined on appropriate behaviors; It seems like they lack social skills” |
Counseling sessions (theme) |
Activities | Expected outcome | ||
---|---|---|---|---|
Week 1: You and I | ||||
Objective(s): To create an atmosphere of trust, warmth and friendliness, which encourages mutual acceptance between the counselor and the counselee | Create relationships between the counselor and the counselee | Trust established with the counselee, resulting in effective execution of the social intelligence counseling program | ||
Explain the objectives and the benefits of attending the program and give the counselee an opportunity to share his or her expectations | ||||
Ask questions to assess and allow the counselee to understand social intelligence | ||||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Jointly summarize the benefits of social intelligence | |||
Theory: person-centered counseling theory | ||||
Techniques: listening, questioning, unconditional positive regard, attention, reflection on feelings, clarifying | ||||
Week 2: Understanding emotional awareness | ||||
Objective(s): For the counselee to understand and be aware of his or her feelings and emotions and those of others | Review the benefits of social intelligence | The counselee gains awareness and an understanding of their feelings and those of others, especially the thoughts and feelings of a person being bullied | ||
Allow the counselee to close his or her eyes for 2 minutes to recall past events | ||||
Have the counselee draw a picture of “my goodness” and a picture of “a friend’s goodness” and explain their feelings | ||||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Ask questions about how to understand people to develop an ability to understand others’ emotions in various situations | |||
Theory: Gestalt counseling theory | Explain and connect the thoughts, feelings and perceptions of the counselee to understand the feelings of a person being bullied | |||
Technique: think-feel technique | Jointly summarize the counselee’s participation in this session | |||
Week 3: Understanding social awareness | ||||
Objective(s): For the counselee to correctly understand social situations | Greet and talk about various situations in society | The counselee gains an awareness of the social situations around himself or herself and an understanding of the behavioral expressions of others and learns to respond appropriately | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Use the “stay with a feeling” technique to allow the counselee to think about a social situation and ask about the situation and the feelings of the counselee | |||
Theory: Gestalt counseling theory | Have the counselee choose a question card about a bullying situation in society, use this question to ask how the counselee feels about the situation on the card, about the cause of the situation, and whether the counselee has experienced a similar situation | |||
Techniques: stay with a feeling, fantasy approaches | Jointly share opinions and views on the situation | |||
Conduct awareness exercises and jointly summarize the counselee’s participation in this session | ||||
Week 4: Enhancing decisions regarding the treatment of others | ||||
Objective(s): To enhance the counselee’s understanding of the behaviors of others in social situations | Discuss the daily routines of the counselee | The counselee understands the behaviors of others in social situations, which informs their decisions regarding how to treat others | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Have the counselee visualize various bullying situations and ask questions: | |||
Theory: behavioral counseling theory | “How do the people in these situations feel?” | |||
Technique: problem-solving | “What do the people in these situations want?” | |||
Support and allow the counselee to freely express his or her views about situations and people in society | ||||
Have the counselee try to understand the simulation and answer the question of “how to solve this problem” | ||||
Jointly gather concepts and summarize participation in this session | ||||
Week 5: Enhancing social information processing | ||||
Objective(s): To enhance the counselee’s understanding of social situations when deciding to express appropriate behaviors | Greet and ask about the experiences of the counselee from previous sessions | The counselee understands proper social etiquette and orders of society to understand social information and use it in decisions to show appropriate behaviors in each situation | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Allow the counselee to use “fantasy approaches” to imagine life events that cause inappropriate behaviors and the impact of these events | |||
Theory: Gestalt counseling theory | Jointly share opinions about inappropriate behaviors and proper social etiquette | |||
Techniques: fantasy approaches | Use open-ended questions about how the counselee should behave upon encountering a teacher, a monk, his or her father or mother, relatives, or close friends | |||
Provide knowledge about etiquette in daily life and perform some exercises for “basic social etiquette” | ||||
Jointly summarize participation in this session | ||||
Week 6: Developing emotions | ||||
Objective(s): To develop appropriate emotional expressions in front of others | Discuss and exchange various stories to create a friendly atmosphere | The counselee has knowledge of various emotions and appropriate emotional expressions, resulting in the ability to express emotions and control aggressive emotions | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Provide knowledge of “emotions and feelings in everyday life” | |||
Theory: behavioral counseling theory | Have the counselee review his or her thoughts and feelings upon encountering a simulation; for example, when receiving a compliment from a teacher for having the highest exam score, when being teased or attacked by a friend | |||
Techniques: skills training, reinforcement, assign homework | Do “skills training” for appropriate expressions of feelings | |||
Give a “homework assignment” to practice “complimenting others” | ||||
Week 7: Developing behaviors | ||||
Objective(s): To develop the ability to express appropriate behaviors in front of others | Greet and have the counselee present homework on “complimenting others” | The counselee can appropriately behave in front of others, including communication, facial expressions, postures, and maintaining good relationships | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Have the counselee think of inappropriate behaviors that he or she has experienced or displayed and write down these inappropriate behaviors and their attitudes toward such behaviors | |||
Theory: behavioral counseling theory | Have the counselee look at a picture set showing bullying behaviors and share a reflection of his or her feelings and beliefs about the behaviors and discuss each behavior with the counselee | |||
Techniques: modeling, assign homework | Use the “modeling” technique for the counselee to practice the appropriate behavior shown in pictures of “good behavior for teenagers” | |||
Give a “homework assignment” to make a record of “my good behaviors” | ||||
Week 8: Success in social intelligence | ||||
Objective(s): To review learning and reflective learning outcomes after participating in the psychological counseling program to enhance social intelligence | Greet the counselee and ask what he or she has learned from the previous homework assignment | The counselee can link the knowledge from the counseling program with practice, planning how to use what they have learned and making appropriate ethical decisions, which results in reduced bullying behaviors displayed by the counselee | ||
Theory and counseling technique(s): | Explain the purpose of this counseling session to lead to the end of the consultation | |||
Theories: person-centered counseling theory | Ask questions to assess the learning outcomes of the counselee; for example, what the counselee learned and what benefits the counselee gained | |||
Techniques: open-ended questions, summarizing, clarifying, encouragement | Have the counselee complete a “reflective learning” worksheet and provide an opportunity to ask additional questions | |||
Encourage the counselee to gain confidence in applying social intelligence in daily life |
Variables | Experimental (n = 16) | Control (n = 16) | Total | p-value |
---|---|---|---|---|
Sex | 1.000 | |||
Male | 16 | 15 | 31 (96.9) | |
Female | - | 1 | 1 (3.1) | |
Age (y) | 0.918 | |||
12 | 1 | 1 | 2 (6.3) | |
13 | 10 | 8 | 18 (56.2) | |
14 | 4 | 6 | 10 (31.2) | |
16 | 1 | 1 | 2 (6.3) | |
Education level | 0.484 | |||
Grade 8 | 16 | 14 | 30 (93.7) | |
Grade 9 | - | 2 | 2 (6.3) | |
Cumulative grade | 0.241 | |||
≤2.00 | 4 | 6 | 10 (31.2) | |
2.01-3.00 | 9 | 4 | 13 (40.6) | |
>3.00 | 3 | 6 | 9 (28.2) |
Variables | Experimental (n = 16) | Control (n = 16) | Mean difference (95% CI) | p-value |
---|---|---|---|---|
Total SIS scores | ||||
Baseline | 62.38±5.83 | 60.63±6.05 | 1.75 (-2.54, 6.04) | 0.411 |
End of counseling | 70.25±4.30 | 54.81±9.73 | 15.44 (9.90, 20.97) | <0.001 |
Social intelligence components | ||||
Social awareness scores | ||||
Baseline | 17.56±3.33 | 18.44±3.14 | -0.88 (-3.21, 1.46) | 0.450 |
End of counseling | 21.00±3.93 | 17.38±3.98 | 3.63 (0.77, 6.48) | 0.015 |
Social information processing scores | ||||
Baseline | 23.50±3.69 | 22.13±3.48 | 1.38 (-1.21, 3.96) | 0.287 |
End of counseling | 26.56±3.58 | 19.56±4.60 | 7.00 (4.02, 9.98) | <0.001 |
Social skills scores | ||||
Baseline | 21.31±3.05 | 20.06±2.77 | 1.25 (-0.85, 3.35) | 0.234 |
End of counseling | 22.69±2.18 | 17.88±3.24 | 4.81 (2.82, 6.81) | <0.001 |
BBS scores | ||||
Baseline | 34.81±12.61 | 33.38±9.11 | 1.44 (-6.51, 9.38) | 0.714 |
1-mo post-counseling | 22.44±7.87 | 33.25±9.36 | -10.81 (-17.05, -4.57) | 0.001 |
The number in parentheses is the number of the key informants who addressed each component of social intelligence.
A total of 8 weeks: 8 weekly 1-hour counseling sessions.
Values are presented as number or number (%). Fisher’s exact test/Exact test.
Values are presented as mean±standard deviation. SIS, Social Intelligence Scale; BBS, Bullying-Behavior Scale; CI, confidence interval.